The Four Agreements
A couple of months ago, I visited Bodhigram. It is a quiet place at the foothills of the Himalayas and ideal for people looking for some peace of mind and wanting to spend time close to nature, away from the city. One of the founders of that place suggested a book called “The Four Agreements” by Miguel Ruiz. It is a 140-page book yet I took almost a month to finish it. Not because I am a slow reader or it was a complicated book to read, but because the book is so nicely and rightly written that it makes you think. I am not sure if the things written in this book would have made less sense if I had not been questioning some patriarchal aspects of the Indian family structure. The book says that you should make four agreements with yourself. If you do that, your life changes for the better. The agreements are: 1. Be impeccable with your word; 2. Don’t take anything personally; 3. Don’t make assumptions; and 4. Do your best, but it is the intro chapter that made the most differ...